My Barnwell SC cousins , Susan and Mary Jane. "Hospitality is making your guests feel at home, even if you wish they were." --Anonymous "Staying with people consists in your not having your own way, and their not having theirs." --Maarten Maartens "Visits always give pleasure--if not the arrival, the departure." --Portuguese Proverb "For, after all, put it as we may to ourselves, we are all of us from birth to death guests at a table which we did not spread." --Rebecca H. Davis Absalom* simply would not leave . . . . . . and, having lived in, and passionately loved "my other hometown," Athens, Greece, for some three decades at the time he showed up for his visit, I could sympathize with him. How does one leave Greece? My empathy, however, was fraying. At the time he arrived, in the middle of a Greek Orthodox monks ' protest march on the Albanian Embassy, I was newly engaged, living with my British fiancé in a stunning apartment look...